A Mentor's Mentor
We've all had influential people in our lives and if we are lucky, a select few that have mentored us and guided us from an early age. Being a classical musician myself, I started out as a pianist and flautist and I had a great deal of musical mentors early on. However I'd like to share one in particular that was instrumental in the shaping of my early musical and artistic development. This is a blog I wrote earlier this year for a wonderful non-profit called ArtSmart that I work for as a mentor and voice teacher to younger singers.
The students I teach and mentor are those who do not have access to private musical instruction and ArtSmart provides them with free one-on-one voice lessons with industry professionals. I have been working with these students since the start of the 2017-2018 school year, and they have already shown such growth and improvement, not only in their music and performance skills but in their individual abilities to remain focused, motivated and driven. For this blog entry, I want to take the opportunity to share with you all how a musical mentorship experience from my childhood had a profound effect on my life and how that experience continues to influence and inspire me in my current job as a mentor.
I grew up in North Canton, Ohio and I started taking piano lessons when I was in 1st
grade. I was lucky enough to take lessons with a woman named Carol Singer. Not only was she a piano teacher, but she was also the chair of the outreach department for the McDowell Music Club of Canton, Ohio. After I began developing my piano skills, she offered me my first chance at performing through the music club’s outreach program. Under the guidance of her
mentorship, I began to perform not only piano solos, but my other musical disciplines, voice
and flute as well. I performed at church’s, assisted living facilities and nursing homes across
the county as a volunteer performer. Not only did my performing and music skills grow, but it
was the first opportunity for me as a young child to put myself in front of an audience. As a
naturally shy kid, this was extremely important to the early development of my confidence and
self-esteem. At any given concert I would perform my voice, flute and piano solos as well as
duets with my piano teacher, which not only aided in the growth of my self-confidence, but
also taught me how to multi-task at an early age. As the years went on, I found myself doing
better in school and having more confidence in other areas of my scholastic studies. Mrs.
Singer also invited other professional musicians to perform with us from the Canton Symphony
Orchestra at these outreach programs, which eventually led to my involvement as a flautist with the Canton Youth Symphony Orchestra. The opportunity to become a member of the youth
symphony led to my first exposure to the opera during an annual arts field trip that the youth
symphony organized. The opera was Madame Butterfly and after seeing that performance, my
love for the art form of opera was born. Mrs. Singer’s mentorship not only led to my eventual career in opera and served as a fundamental building block in the foundation of my confidence, but it also opened my eyes to the power of music at a very young age. The majority of our outreach performances were at assisted living and nursing homes for the elderly, most whom were nearing the end of their lives and suffered many physical ailments that disabled them from leaving their resident buildings. So, we brought the music to them. The amount of joy that live music gave them was extremely evident for me to see, even as a young adolescent. It was my first glimpse of how powerful music can be in someone’s life and it gave me a significant reason to share my musical talents with others.
Music gave meaning to my life at such an early age. It taught me self-discipline, confidence, multi-tasking, goal setting and gave me a sense of how I could significantly contribute to my community. The benefits that have come from having a musical mentor early on in my life are endless to list, and that is why I am extremely passionate about my responsibility to pass along these life lessons through my mentorship with ArtSmart. Every time I teach a voice or piano lesson, I think back to when I was that student’s age and how instrumental my musical mentor was in my life. I think about how important it is to inspire my students to be courageous with their talents, just like Mrs. Singer did with me. I am so grateful to have been given the opportunity and responsibility to help the ArtSmart students on their developmental journey and to continue to expose them to the wonderful world of the arts. My life has been extremely enriched because of an early exposure to music from a mentor, and it makes me so excited to think how the ArtSmart program will enrich the lives of so many young students.